Please say a prayer for my daughter

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  1. ManofGod

    ManofGod Ancient Guru

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    I have a direct connection with the Almighty through His Son Jesus. I have prayed for your daughters healing and salvation. I have a daughter too that I have not seen in a while so I can relate about the separation.

    GOD Bless,

    Joe
     
  2. tamzid

    tamzid Master Guru

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    may the angels be with you....dont worry god can't turn down all of our prayers....just be strong and keep your hopes alive.....we are praying for your daughter from our heart...amen,,,
     
  3. TyrantofJustice

    TyrantofJustice Ancient Guru

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    once again thanks to all

    and i would like to address the post by YEAR

    he was just trying to make me laugh from my view and also make me aware of the possibilities,which i took as a very honest response
     
  4. Year

    Year Ancient Guru

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    thank you very much mate, i hope all goes well with your daughter, have faith and god bless you and your family for your kindness and wisdom. :)
     

  5. Clawedge

    Clawedge Ancient Guru

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    hey, all the best mate
     
  6. TyrantofJustice

    TyrantofJustice Ancient Guru

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    i have got an update to my daughter situation

    the neuro surgeon she saw wanted to wait 6 months to see if the tumor would grow and how much

    the basis of this was on the notion that it may have been there since birth and never have grown and than there would have been no need for a surgery

    well she got her results back from her M.R.I from last week

    the tumor grew a significant amount and needs to be out within the next 3 weeks

    there is a good chance she will lose her perrephial vision and the feeling on the one side of her body

    we will not know if it is cancerous until they go into the operation

    i called my wife at work when i got the news and she was pissy at me and told me it was my fault ( her genios thinking that if it wasn't left to grow it would not have had such side effects) for not growing balls and telling my ex i want the doctors name and called him like my wife advised me and pushed her appointments up,now we are fighting big time,when we should be leaning on each other for support.

    i will have more news sometime next week when my ex meets with the surgical team and gets all the details.

    i may fly back to N.Y for the day of the operation but i will have to leave the same night as we cannot afford daycare and cannot afford to have my wife miss work.

    i know it is selfish to think this way but i do not know if i am capable of going, just to see my little girl wake up from surgeory hug her and then have to leave her again all in the same day.

    not only does it kill me inside but last time i went home was about 9 months ago when me and the wife had a tiff and split up for 3 days

    my daughter was distraught when i had to leave to come back home,as was I to see her that way.

    Now i do not know if my wife just has a huge complex and has to be right all the time
    if she is just a cruel bitch inside
    or if it is her way of dealing with the terrible news.

    also me and my wife's daughter who is 3 years old has lazy eye
    she went to the eye specialist last week
    her outer muscle took over the function of her inner eye muscle
    which means she needs surgeory as well or her brain will just shut down the eye.

    she got glasses today due to she also has a very pronounced astigmatism in one of her eyes.

    between a up and down marriage and 2 ill kids an older son that is way misbehaved (due to arguing here ) the only thing that calms me is holding my 4 month old son and watching him smile at me with a love so pure.
     
  7. maxfly

    maxfly Ancient Guru

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    go to the surgery. it will eat away at you if you dont.
    best of luck man,i feel for you.
     
  8. Peerless

    Peerless Maha Guru

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    Dude I don't know of your past problems but this one is a really crappy one. I am not a very religious person, but your daughter and family is in my thoughts. Hopefully some postive energy from across the country can do some help for her also. I hope she gets better and that this can be a speed bump in front of her long and great life.
     
  9. RyPaul

    RyPaul Active Member

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    Please try to be strong

    I am sorry to hear the news about your daughter's worsening condition.

    I feel you should try not to be angry with your wife I believe that she is dealing with the situation from the perspective of a mother. She is probably looking at the situation as if it could have been her child. You chose what you thought was right at the time and followed a doctor's advice and the situation is now what it is. This is not a case of who is wrong or right it is all about what information you have to work with now and what you do from this day forth. Do not focus your attention on your wife's behaviour if you feel you may direct negative energy or anger back at her, it may be hard but try not to argue with her no matter what she may throw at you as it would only serve as a distraction right now, try to focus on your daughter and be as strong as you can for her. Also I think you should go to see your daughter. Sometimes we only have the opportunity to do things once in life.
    When you return you could try talking, and I stress the word talking(try hard not to argue), to your wife and see what can be done about your other daughters eye and what can be done to re-enforce your lines of communication because it is through teamwork not division that my wife and myself have overcome hardships.

    You and I may or may not share the same spiritual beliefs but my prayers and best wishes are with you and your family.
     
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  10. BlackZero

    BlackZero Ancient Guru

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    Have faith keep strong, your family needs you to keep strong as does your wife.
     

  11. RagDoll_Effect

    RagDoll_Effect Ancient Guru

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    Hope everything is alright, I send you my warmest wishes, really feel for you and your family, hope things improve...
     
  12. allesclar

    allesclar Ancient Guru

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    yes got to agree, dont be mad at ur wife, she is going through the same as you. Work at it together and be there for your daughter, not that you arnt now but you know what i mean. Well i will be thinking about your daughter for you, must admit that neurologists these days are awesome at what they do. Keep battling :)
     
  13. This thread made me shudder. I wish her all the best and I hope she recovers quickly.
     
  14. alphaphotek

    alphaphotek Master Guru

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    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
     
  15. Zareph

    Zareph Ancient Guru

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    I don't believe in god, thus I don't pray (god wouldn't have let her get a brain tumor in the first place).

    But good luck to your daughter - she'll be just fine.
     

  16. TyrantofJustice

    TyrantofJustice Ancient Guru

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    as i stated here awhile back in this thread

    thanks to everybody for there support

    it is funny how we all curse each other out over hardware issues all day lol
    but in a thread like this everyone shows that human compassion and decency

    and thanks for the input on the wife,i was getting angered but i will look at it a different way


    Great news for the day is this
    her mom is going to pay our 3 year old daughters ballet recidal fee of 150.00 saves us cash we didn,t have and also she told us to go see how much of a down payment on a new car we need to get decent payments we may be able to afford

    as of now we are driving a 1993 intrepid that has tranny issues and wiring issues

    with as many things that go bad some things keep seeming to go right,go figure

    i will update you all as soon as i get more info,as i am sure i can use the support if the situation gets worse and also not to leave you all on a cliffhanger

    again thank you all
     
  17. bobdude

    bobdude Ancient Guru

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    i hate reading stuff that brings a tear to my eye... she will be in my prayer


    and btw we only fight cus where family :)
     
  18. Scorch666

    Scorch666 Ancient Guru

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    My prayers go to your daughter. Best wishes.
     
  19. kanej2007

    kanej2007 Ancient Guru

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    Sorry about the news, but I'm very sure by the end of the surgery, there will be nothing but good news and your daughter will be as good as gold.

    Best of luck, I will pray for your daughter and see to it she will make a full recovery.
     
  20. Tat3

    Tat3 Ancient Guru

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    Agree.

    Best of luck and try to be strong.
     

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