exactly Nato (oi sorry for editing my post i have this bad thing of editing many times to fix incorrect words and adding/removing some useless things). lol if you make it good for yourself and show that you seem happy, the girl will take notice and will enjoy it too regardless of them achieving or not an orgasm. as long as you don't treat her like an object in bed she'll be happy. some girls like it dirty, some like it rough, some smooth and gentle, DO YOUR JOB without overdoing it, have sex and enjoy by keeping in mind what she likes. eg. if she doesn't appreciate you calling her your b**** then you don't call her that, otherwise it's all good imo.