Hi Dockap, Thank you for being open about your involvement. I grew up to believe that if something is secret then there is something bad to hide. the fact you clearly admit that there is secret ceremonies does raise my eye brows towards suspicion. Clearly if there is nothing to hide then why is it secret? Forgive me for my naivety but as stated in op alot of people around me are banging on about it and i just wanted to know what all the fuss was about.!