Discussion in 'The Guru's Pub' started by StewieTech, Feb 4, 2017.
Privacy? You said she's a Twitch streamer.
You need to get out more and get a real life.
Why?.....So he can get his heart ripped out like us/we did?....
Falling in love with someone can happen anywhere/anytime and theres nothing you can do about it....
Anyone who says no simply has not met that someone yet.
Time is the greatest healer, really there will come a time when you will wonder why was i this angst or hung up as it will all seems so trivial as you look back. Ha
she doesnt love you anyway... look around you n get another girl
Why as he got to get his heart ripped out lots of relationships last. I guess we all have crushes on other people at some time, but as he as said nothing is ever going to come of it.
but meeting someone on the internet on the other side of the planet doesn't count.
this twitch girl probably doesn't even know OP exists so this is a bit out there
Sure it counts.....Were talking about it so it must have happen....
OP loves this girl/
I gotta tell you, I don't if I'm impressed with the lack of trolling, or disappointed...
It will, with time. It will go faster if you find someone else to love though.
I think the most successful date is finding someone locally. It could also be someone you work with, just make sure you separate work and dating.
Another good way to find a girl is joining circles (voluntary, sport, hiking) that you like. The girl in same circle usually won't go away soon, so you have enough time to develop relationship.
Patience does pay off in relationship. Once you found someone you like, don't rush it. Become friends, go out together, get known and then proceed to date.
Stay away from internet dating and bars, since single people who go there are usually desperate for dating and sex. You don't need it.
Finding a good girl gets harder and harder with age.
As my Russian friend said: "Good girls being picked up while young, the rest grow up to become bitches".
I wish you good luck.
MOVE ON bro..go to real world n you'll find another cute sweetie girl
No, just no. I agree with the others saying he needs to go out more. So what if he gets hurt? That would be apart of life, but to fall for a twitch streamer as a fully grown man is a bit worrying no?
I've loved and been hurt, it sucks yes, but he can't stay in his "safe space" all his life.
I don't know...getting close to 30 and his FIRST girl he even LIKED is someone he doesn't know on a game stream??? Like I said, the posting history (I'm not implying it is negative) makes me question the veracity of the whole thing. He's kinda a prankster. That's just me though.
Come on OP, you're in Portugal, aren't the streets full of hot latino women there?
Just get out of the house every now and then and do stuff. Try to find a hobby you like that involves other people. Easier said than done I know but try.
If you do suffer from social anxiety or similar, do not hesitate to seek help. A little therapy and perhaps the right medication can do wonders.
Not implying you have any condition but... well yeah, what you've told is a bit worrying.
To have a crush on a twitch girl is normal. To fall in love, or to think so, with one is something else.
Plus like said it's not the person you love but the image of her you've created for yourself. You don't know her in real life so she's about as real as a TV character.
Forgot to mansion one of the typical patterns of behaviour.
When we see unknown person for the first time our consciousness does compare his/her appearance details to known persons details, and if some details do match we tend to apply profile (character, behaviour, intelligence, etc) of known person to this new one. And we do not even realize all this stuff.
So it may be that this girl resembles to someone known to OP - relative, friend, first love - someone significant, and he just awarded her with positive qualities of another person.
Thanks for the cold views folks, it made me view things in perspective. Screw this bull**** she was nothing but a bitch to me anyway. I need to get laid and get out more and find a good person. There are still good persons out there i feel it. I´m the boss of my own fate, if someone doubts it i´ll make her believe. cheers
What's her twitter page? also 27 lol. dude go for women between the ages of 49-72.
As for your issue, if she has a boyfriend leave it alone. Trust me, it will never work/happen. My advice, instead of worrying about sleeping with a woman, get to know them first, become friends, build a long term friendship by spending time with them, hanging out with them, helping them out when needed, and let it play out.
My wife is 62, she looks about 44 though. I'm 35, been married for 9 years now, friends for 13 years. All my lady friends are between the ages of 44-68 though. I don't even have friends my age, i always felt conformable dealing with older people/women. But good luck.
Hey that´s actually good advice! :nerd: