Discussion in 'The Guru's Pub' started by Vibe, Aug 29, 2020.
Yikes I'm not even going there dude
Exactly... why not?
Guys, let's leave it as it is.
OP, the more time you wait for the right moment, the more you endanger your position.
Even that you'll be telling the story , but you'll be looked at like the villan in the story.
Act, don't let more things to happen.
Imagine that particular someone gets out with a different story where you proposed the act.
Hardly anyone will believe you, even if you tell the truth.
Understand, I believe what you said, as you said it happened. Just wanted to say that not doing something will put you in the wrong place, you will react, instead of being proactive.
Go out and deal with it.
Oh I got what you were saying lol.
Is that stifler?
What part of Kentucky?
I would keep it to myself, telling your girlfriend will only make you feel better not her if you want to keep her anyway. And don't do it again ..
Half of you must have read a different story. It's as if you think OP accidentally raped a girl. There is nothing to "not do again", and whether he tells his partner is up to him. Being raped isn't something you need to be told "don't do", that's extremely destructive, not to mention illogical. As far as his gf being upset, if OP needs to hide being raped to make her happy, does that sound reasonable to you?
You guys should be ashamed.
Haven't read any comments yet but if this would happen to me i immediately would've woken the whole camp and find the person responsible.
If you're unlucky she did this for spermjacking you to get pregnant. Now imagine what your gf would say if that girl told her you got her pregnant in the middle of that night when nobody was watching?
Well exactly she would ask you why you didn't say anything!
Dude get this sorted ASAP!
Dear Penthouse Forum,
You wouldn't believe what happened to me on a camping trip last week! I'm too lazy to finish this but make it all hot and steamy and send it into Penthouse -- do they still exist?
By the way, I don't think I'm the only one here who wished they had your problems.
I would never want this kind of an problem.
Yeah, it was supposed to be taken as a joke.
Rapes no joke bro, imagine bubba tore your buttocks wide, and everyone laughed when you told them.
You just made a rape joke after telling me rape's no joke, congratulations.
I weren't joking.
There is no options here, she must be told.
Shes going to be pissed at the situation
She will get over it. It cannot be rushed.
You didn't actively sought out cheating, it was forced on you.
It's not cheating, its sexual assault.
Being the victim, it's absolutely up to him who he tells and when. There's no need to tell his gf, and there's no reason for her to be pissed.
As long as the reason is not "to avoid splitting up the family". The only factor to consider is OP's readiness and comfortability.
While I normally would agree, problems are complicating the situation.
Minors could be involved?
The subject is rape/non-consensual sex.
Possible familial connection to partner could come out later (be proactive, not reactive)
If a minor is involved depending on the worst-case scenario, you can end up in jail. (the way things are perceived matter more than the way things happened sometimes which is why hiding them or lying never helps)
Consult a lawyer that deals with sexual crimes.
Speak to your partner, it's true it'd be naive to assume one's partner will respond in an amenable manner if you think an underaged girl had oral sex with you. That language alone is jarring. Approach with caution, protect yourself at all times, and remember that our system doesn't always protect the victim.