Touche'. I operate with the same creedo. My Myspace page(which I hate, and never check) says "I don't post pics of myself, because if you know me in real life, then it doesn't matter, and if you know me from the internet, then you don't really believe it's me anyway". I really don't need anyone I don't know knowing what I look like. Paranoid, eh? Either way, being trans part of me, and my only real choice is whether to deal with it and be happy, or ignore it and be miserable, again. To me, there really is no choice.