I tried so hard to restrain myself from posting…but! Your clearly down the road of separation, I know this sounds harsh but I have seen to many similar situations including myself. You only learn from experience and you my friend have not learnt nothing! some how you have a weakness to women and they see it. Your diffinately not doing something right, when your wife spends more time with another man! than you. This guys fulfilling a need that your not fulfilling for your wife, I don’t care what people say no way in hell am I going to let my wife be friend another guy, and then let her get emotionally tied with the guy. Forget! the “trust me baby, we are only friends” The amount of times I have heard women say this to me. Seriously Man up! tell her your not having another guy satisfy her selfish needs just because she wants to have a bit of alone time, with another man. If your still trying to find excuse and keep letting her run you around in circles like a “p*ssy whooped” male, your only going to end up hurt.