Gah, I feel stupid for even posting but not sure how to handle this.

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  1. Cyberdyne

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    Make no mistake, OP did not break the law. Sexual assault is sexual assault. If your only concern is the crap legal system of Kentucky, then the only person he should be talking to is the police/lawer, certainly not his gf. If you have any faith in the legal system, there is no need to do anything he doesn't want to.
     
  2. anticupidon

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    Wish OP best luck dealing with this, it's the opening of the can of worms that sickens me.
    Sometimes, being the victim is punished worse than being the abuser by family ,friends and society.
     
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  3. Yeah cause of victim blaming y'know?

    @anticupidon just got it
     
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  4. Cyberdyne

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    Is that supposed to be sarcastic? If you want examples of it, look through this nasty thread.
     

  5. No I am dead serious. Why do you think I am sarcastic? I haven't said anything sarcastic. I've been nothing but supportive of OP and given supportive statements. I'm being serious about the victim-blaming part I am not sure where you read sarcastic out of ... any of that. Just... take it easy...
     
  6. Cyberdyne

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    Because you've made demands of the victim. Need to tell X Y Z. Maybe you meant "this is what I would do".
     
  7. No, I definitely meant what I said. Anyway. You're obviously upset & I'm going to give you your space.
     
  8. anticupidon

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    Boys, let's keep it at ease.
     
  9. Cyberdyne

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    Then you still don't understand the implications of what you said.
     
  10. Astyanax

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    All of this and then some, theres also the matter of this coming out later and the question of what else has been lied about will be forever in her mind.

    It doesn't matter if hes a victim in the context given being that of his relationship, that's secondary to the thread and needs to also be addressed.
     
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  11. Cyberdyne

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    If my gf went up to me and said "i was raped 5 years ago" my first reaction certainly wouldn't be "what else have you lied about". Absolutely crazy.
     
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    That would be your second line of thought actually, all humans are suspicious creatures and they don't like having information suddenly dropped on them that they were not privy to where they should have been the first to know.

    That said, you're approaching this from a male mindset and logical thinking.

    Women are dominantly emotional thinkers.
     
  13. Cyberdyne

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    No it wouldn't. Rape is not a form of cheating. There is nothing up be suspicious of. If his gf sees it that way then it's time to move on.
     
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    Stop trying to rationalise it, you don't seem to have any comprehension of female reasoning at all :rolleyes:
     
  15. Cyberdyne

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    Whatever female reasoning is to you doesn't change what's right and wrong. Simply not an excuse to victim blame.
     

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    you don't need an STD test, it would be very difficult to catch anything from that situation.
     
  17. anticupidon

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    Let's not make this thread a cringe fest.
    OP went out and bared his soul and some choose to be a bit "smarter".
    Let's keep it at ease, gentlemen. It's enough what it's been said, let's wait for OP to update the thread.
    Not pointing fingers at anyone. Just imagine that this happened to you, if empathy is a foreign concept to you.
     
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  18. While the risk of contracting most STIs from oral sex is lower than for vaginal or anal sex, there is still the risk of transmission. STIs like chlamydia, herpes, gonorrhoea, syphilis and HPV can all be transmitted orally, meaning they can pass from one person's mouth to their partner's genitals or anus, or vice versa.

    EDIT: @anticupidon sorry but what @Brasky was just medically incorrect.
     
  19. anticupidon

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    No, what you posted is correct.
    As before, not pointing fingers at anyone.
     
  20. Brasky

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    Everyone's a doctor on the internet.
     

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