Buy a spray bottle, fill it with water. Every time you need to tidy up your hair, just spray and comb them.
I use V05 Xtreme Style fiber putty in my hair, seems to work pretty good as its naturally quite heavy
I just leave mine short and pet it in the right direction in the morning. If I let it get long, my hair is curly so it's just a mess.
You're lucky you've even got hair. I've already lost half of the hair on my scalp and I'm not even 35 yet *sigh*
pfft! COME ON! I am 27 and I am lighter on top. I shave my head and got more women than when I had thick head of hair! ALPHA! ALPHA! ALPHA!