The right girl doesn't care about your money, looks or "package"....but they will notice confidence and respond to it. You really do need to logout and go hang out with friends. Social places are the best to meet girls. They don't necessarily have to have the same interests. You just have to learn to enjoy (or at least tolerate) their interests.... Me and my wife are completely different but have been together almost 9 years.....and I was lacking in both the looks and money....still am....lol
Lol, hopefully this is a joke. Otherwise you're the standard jaded guy who's mad that someone broke up with them. Good relationships, while hard to find, are more than worthwhile. As for how to get one, that's a tough question. You have to be good looking or funny.
Post should be called how do I keep a girlfriend ....................... Mmmmm trying to think of good advice mmmm............. don't try to hard desperate never works Mmmmmm........ Try and remember what they tell you act interested in them Mmmmmmmm... If that doesn't work ignore them
First of all Stop wasting all of your spare time in front of a pc. You need to feel confident with yourself, be social,laugh more often,be funny say jokes,don't be a closed person, just let yourself go and express your feelings and thoughts. (don't think that you are different than any other person out there,we are all the same, just remember no one is any better than what you are if others can do it,you can do it). Start hanging out with your friends more often, go out to night clubs (where the real girls are), have a few drinks with them and dance don't be shy. It would really help if you hang out with a crazy friend of yours that does all of the above. Likes to joke around, flert with women,and pay attention to how he interacts with them, just watch and learn. You will be amazed at how girls aren't that hard to get,(just think they want the same thing as you do) you just need to make them laugh and not bore the hell out of them. You are still only 19 enjoy your life, trust me you don't want yet a long term relationship. As a start just try to go out with any experienced girls that don't want any attachments. Once you accomplish that you will feel like another person and you will see your self esteem jump sky high....
well seems like you hardly get off your computer, so dont try to change that, just wait for her, keep talking & meeting people online until you find that shy girl that only goes out for school/job, meeting her on chat only requires talking skills, that cant be hard i think, you only need to be a bit less shy than her and you will look good enough for her, when you find the one you want(dont be too picky) dont think it twice if she ask you to meet in person
Online *SPAM* seems to be the trend for a lot of people these days, doesn't have quite the stigma it once did. My sister and her husband met online, they're both quite normal......
Go outside. Be social. Smile. Make eye contact. Say hello. That is it. The rest happens when it happens. Seriously. If you are into nature, go to a park. Into comics or anime, go to a con. Like drinking, go to a club. Do the above. Things will happen. Been there, done that, been married for 12 years now.
